We are starting a 30-day sexual challenge this Friday based on a friend’s list and lists that we have found online. Here is the list before starting. It is likely to be edited according to the rules.
Any comments or comments would be appreciated.
Here is the list:
Our 30-day sexual challenge, also known as “Our womendateonline sexual challenge”
Each partner can modify/replace the activity during two of the days of their choice before the challenge begins. There are no issues after the challenge begins.
Each couple has two VETO days in which they can choose to have sex and skip the activity of a specific day.
Members can also add anything to the list if both partners agree.
Periods, holidays, business trips will be treated as “pause” if necessary.
If one day is lost, an additional day will be added to the challenge by increasing the duration of the challenge from 30, 31, 32, and so on. The challenge will not exceed 40 days.
The goal is to boost your comfort zone and try something new. If a member feels uncomfortable with a challenge and no longer has an issue or VETO, they can borrow a VETO from partners. In this case, the member who waives a VETO can choose the new activity.
Condoms and contraceptives should be used when desired or required.
Day 1: Have sex at a time other than before bedtime. Lunchtime, morning sex or training after work.
Day 2: explore a list, a book of sexual positions or watch a video of Kama Sutra together. Choose some new positions to try. Be sure to tell your partner what you think is nice and why. Stick to easy things. It doesn’t make sense to hurt yourself on day 2.
Day 3: Have sex twice in one day.
Day 4: read erotica together before sex. Find a good erotic online and choose a short story.
Day 5: Sex in the shower. Be very soap but be careful. Water-based lubricant (not shower water or soap) is recommended.
Day 6: Full body massage before starting sex.
Day 7: Quickie 10 minutes or less. Try to have fun somewhere / time. Example: while preparing breakfast standing in the kitchen. Bonus Play: two or more in one day.
Day 8: road trip. Park, kiss and have sex in the car. Option: go home to have sex later. Do not break the law. Maybe just do it in the car in the garage.
Day 9: Sex while sitting on a chair or sofa, facing each other and facing away.
Day 10: sensual massage with oil before sex. Old towels or sheets recommended
Day 11: only oral sex. Tell your partner what works and keep it until you both have an orgasm. No 69.
Day 12: Let it dominate. Tell your partner what you want. Bonus Play: ropes or handcuffs
Day 13: She takes him to orgasm, without sex, only hands, mouth, and body. Bonus game: use the chest or feet to take the partner to orgasm.
Day 14: find a new place in the house for sex. Kitchen, bathroom, living room, chair, sofa, floor, etc.
Day 15: each couple takes to orgasm sitting in front of the couple in bed. The same time is ideal. Share what you feel. Use whatever you want. Watch and learn.
Day 16 – Advanced level Kama Sutra. Find two or three challenging positions to try. Again, avoid injuries.
Day 17— Add toys to the way you make love. Vibrators, dildos, rings, beads, and tickles. This session is about finding what works. Extra game: We-Vibe or other shared sex toys.
Day 18— Watch porn together. Film or at least 30 minutes. Extra game: Masturbating (self or as a couple) or having sex while watching. Start with something safe if you’ve never seen it before. Find a good video of “couples porn” or visit sites like X-Art.
Day 19 – Sex without intercourse. Hands, body, toys, mouths. Both must orgasm.
Day 20: share fantasies today by email. (Warning, do not use work email) Choose one to play. Bonus Play: costumes.
Day 21: Visit a sex shop together. Both must make a purchase. Sex toys, sex games, videos or books.
Day 22: takes her to orgasm, without sexual intercourse. Hands, mouth, only toys
Day 23: take a break … enjoy a night of sex
Day 24: Sex game … dice, roulette or application. Find something fun to play in.
Day 25— Decrease the speed of sex. Fuck at ¼ speed. This is a marathon, slow and steady. 45 minutes + or until both have had one or more orgasms.
Day 26 – Let it dominate. He is in charge, do what he says. Bonus Play: ropes or handcuffs
Day 27: Dinner outside playing under the table. Nothing illegal! Then go home or to the hotel to have sex.
Day 28: Day of multiple orgasms. Take a few minutes to cool down with caresses after orgasm and then try to start over again, or just continue! Today, one is never enough!
Day 29 – Throw a coin, choose a dominant. Tell your partner “Do what you want”, but make sure you have a sure word. Try to exceed your limits and the level of comfort of your partner.
Day 30: stay up all night, or while you can, having sex. Have as much sex as possible today. Explore 27 days of favorites today and try to have 5 orgasms or sex 5 times.
Bonus Day 31: Caress, take it easy and then fuck.
And maybe he has a day of relentless teasing. Find ways to drive each other crazy, but without sexual, oral or masturbation, mutual or other relationships. Dress provocatively, send yourself sexy photos, limit touch everywhere except to the genitals, tell them what the other person would like to do if only … I suggest you do this before the quick day.
Why water-based lubricant for sex in the shower? Wouldn’t it be better with silicone-based for that, since it is not washed as easily as water-based and is also generally safe for condoms (always check the packaging, but I have never seen any that say they are not)?
Just don’t use silicone lubricant with silicone toys. If you’re not using it with toys, silicone is almost always better than water-based, unless you hate the extra effort to take it off.
Besides, sensual massage with oil before sex seems risky if you use condoms. Oil destroys latex. Even if you are not using the oil as a lubricant, handling a condom with oily hands seems like a bad plan.
Aw, I’ve already done almost all this with one of my FWB. These are some of my contributions:
-sex while tall. Smoke a lot of grass and go for it
-sex while drunk. No shit face, just happy drunk. I’m sure everyone has done this, but it’s a lot of fun.
-threesome. As a woman, 10/10 I recommend MFM threesomes.
-a bandage / slavery
-sex in a hammock
-Oral while playing video games or something else that requires concentration. A partner does everything possible to distract the other.
Edited to add: -strip poker. But this works best with new people. Once you have seen each other naked one billion times, it is not so exciting.