Reasons Why Casual Sex Actually Sucks

It is a sin to engage in one of the most sacred acts between human beings, but not put any heart into it. This can lead to the episode becoming trite. Casual sex is no longer able to induce the same butterfly-inducing effects as it used to.

If you aren’t willing to settle for casual understanding, make sure you don’t spend too much time with her. Otherwise, the sugar won’t be quite as sweet.

You don’t have to feel guilty about hitting and quitting, pumping or dumping, f*cking/chucking, nailing/bailing, wham-bamming or thank-you-ma’aming, skeeting, retreating, and evacuating.

Dating has become an extremely loose term. At this point, it can mean almost anything.

This could be a sign that you are going out to eat in public or it could simply mean that you are two Millennials texting and f*cking.

Casual sex is a very confusing topic.

There are many types of casual sex. The obvious ones are the one-night stands, the booty call and sex by appointment.

Perhaps you have heard of rec (recreational sex), which is because, according to one friend, “every great athlet needs practice.”

Then there is “cereal” sex. This is a one-night affair in a dry spell. It is like cereal but is very satisfying, but you will soon need more food.

Wait, there’s more.

Deja sex? Unexpectedly, you have sex with someone that you didn’t plan on seeing again. After a few handle pulls you find yourself in a PIKE room with whatever your name was. You never see him again until ten years later at the international trade convention.

Sex is, by definition, the opposite of casual. It is the most intimate thing that two people can do.

What do you do if you don’t want feelings but want sex?

The conflict I have faced over the last few years was trying to find the right balance between being independent and single (basically, just living my life), without becoming a “booty call”.

Casual sex is likely to be a topic of conversation when casual sex comes up. Many people worry that “hookup apps”, such as Tinder, Blendr and Grindr, are causing society to crumble.

You can look through potential prospects just like you would at Forever 21.

It’s never been easier to find casual sex than it is now.

There is no doubt that digital hookups are a great way for singles to have sex while being sexually active. It can also be a great way to meet someone you want to pursue.

Sex is amazing. Casual sex is safe as long as there’s consent, protection, and honesty.

There are some specific rules, such as don’t f*ck your best friends boyfriend or someone who is committed, but you get my point.

My mom reminds me every time she takes me to the car, that the current “hook-up” culture is more casual than it was in the past.

Casual sex can turn into “friends and benefits” or any other type of relationship. It’s good for a brief time but has an expiration date. It must either end or progress at some point.

You may find that some people you meet for casual sex will be a bit more open than others about “just getting out of a relationship” or “not looking for anything serious” or “really just focusing his career.”

This huge red flag would be ignored and I’d just go out with another guy for casual sex. That guy is a suck.

Why does he keep talking to me for seven days and then disappear? Because he doesn’t want this to become anything other than sex.

You are having sex. He’d disappear.

You will continue to do this until you realize that there is nothing consistent about your sex buddy.

However, just because a guy sends you kiss face emoticons and tells you how amazing you are doesn’t mean that he wants to have a relationship.

The only cereal I like is cereal. Sorry, bro.

All logic and judgment are lost when you get too much sex with someone.

Both of you get so excited and high that you start to think you know each other. After three weeks of texting for three consecutive weeks, you both feel like you are in love.

This person is not your friend.

The pull-back is not to be confused with the pullout.

It’s basically the first time that someone does something somewhat flaky like cancelling plans last minute or forgetting to reply to text messages.

I will be blunt: if you’re casually seeing someone, don’t expect to spend every night with them. If you’re sleeping with someone, expect a reply within 48-72 hours.

You can stand up for your rights if someone is rude to you. He doesn’t need to be called 10 times in succession to know that you aren’t serious.

We are taught in casual sex that if you sleep with someone you have a great time and it ends quickly so you don’t think twice.

Do not be ashamed if you don’t get the appeal of hooking up culture.

Sometimes, we desire more than just sex. You don’t have to fall in love with every person you meet, but it does not mean that you won’t find something.

You may feel empty and lonely if you do not. You might even want to crawl back into bed and remember how it was once so important. This is not how you should feel about sex.

Some people don’t want their 20-something selves to be wild, young and free, like any alcohol, clothing or company campaign.

Although a relationship built on sex might not provide you with the emotional support you need, everyone needs physical love from time to time.

Casual sex can be fun, but it should not be considered sexual harassment. It’s fine if this is not what you want, or it’s often what it is. It doesn’t mean that you have to feel the same way all the time.