First Date Sex with Girl? 7 Tips to Get Laid

First dates are exciting, and can lead to something new and exciting. First dates can lead to a wonderful relationship or just a casual affair. They can also be a disaster. There are many ways to make things go wrong on first dates, but it’s important to have a solid plan for the first date. You can’t get back a first impression and first dates are a two-hour long first impression. We all have bad first dates. It’s not hard to imagine that we would wish we didn’t. We’ve put together a list of things that you shouldn’t do on your first date. These tips may not guarantee you win over your crush, but they should ensure that your first date is successful.

  1. Guys, you have to pay the bill. Ladies, let him pay.
  2. Don’t overdo it.
  3. Do not grill them. This is not an interview.
  4. Do not share a bed.
  5. Be positive and not complaining
  6. Do not bring up ex-partners or exes.
  7. Talking about children, marriage, and dream homes.

Guys, you have to pay the bill. Ladies, let him pay.

We are all for equality between the sexes and we do realize that 2015 is an exception to the rule. However, we believe this is one of our best efforts. We believe that men should pay on their first date because of the awkwardness that can follow. While we are all for girls having to pay the check once they have been together for a while, for the first date let the chivalry do its thing. Money shouldn’t cause awkwardness. Unfortunately, this happens more often than we would like. Don’t argue with your guy friend if he’s paying the bill.

Don’t overdo it.

While we know first dates can be a great way to impress your partner, it is important that you don’t go too far. Example? Invite her to dinner, and have 40 candles lit. Also, place rose petals on the ground. Another example: You can ask him to bring two tickets to the later game of the week. If the first date is successful, you can then move on to more romantic and progressive gestures. Keep it simple on your first date. Don’t invest too much. This can make the other person feel uncomfortable and add unnecessary pressure to an event that should be fun, light, and enjoyable.

Do not grill them. This is not an interview.

While it is important to get to know your date better, that doesn’t mean you have to ask 20 questions. Let the conversation flow as it should. If it gets too deep, it’s fine, but don’t try to find out more. First date conversations should not get personal, intimate, or deep. You don’t want your date to feel like they just went through the third degree.

Do not share a bed.

We know it’s 2015, and sex should take place wherever and whenever there are two consenting adults. We know it’s old-fashioned, but we believe you should be safe and not go on your first date together. You guys are still strangers at this point and sex can make things awkward or even go wrong very quickly. It’s not always easy to have sex with someone you don’t emotionally connect to. The sex may not be as comfortable between you two because you don’t know each other well and you are not quite comfortable with each other yet. There is little chance that you will ever get back together because of bad sex. You can play it safe and wait to feel connected and comfortable enough to have sex. It will be worth it, we promise.

Be positive and not complaining

We all have moments when we feel bad about ourselves and complain. A first date is not the place to allow that. Talking smack, complaining or sharing issues with others is not a good first impression. It’s okay to talk about these things to a friend, relative, or partner. But not to someone you are just meeting for dinner. Keep it positive, and avoid any negative comments.

Do not bring up ex-partners or exes.

Although this should be obvious, some people feel the need bring up their ex-partners or exes when they first meet. This is a waste of time and can reflect poorly on you. You could send the wrong message or make your ex look bad. Talking trash on someone is bad for a first date. However, talking trash on an ex is a big no no. Talking about your ex makes you think about what it would be like to have a relationship with him/her.

Talking about children, marriage, and dream homes.

Most people are looking to start a relationship and that is what most first dates do. It’s not appropriate to discuss your dream wedding venue or your children’s names. Talking about children, marriage, and settling down can make you appear desperate or crazy. It’s not a good idea to project the impression that you expect this relationship to become serious, especially if you don’t know the person well enough. You can only hope for the best, and you both see a bright future together. But don’t let that happen right now.