If you’ve been in a relationship for a while now, chances are that you’ve either slipped into a sexual comfort zone, or you’ve stopped aiming for new sexual heights. Either way, it’s time for you to get back into the swing of things — and I mean that literally.
Of course, each individual has their own needs and desires when it comes to lovemaking, and so long as you and your woman are on the same page, you can decide together what you want to do in the bedroom, and what kind of props you want to throw into your sexual mix.
Whether you and your woman take pleasure in sensual massages and hot baths together, or prefer to role-play and spank each other until your butts are raw, there’s a toy in store for everyone. So strap on that leash and let’s get started with womendateonline.com site.
If your woman isn’t a big fan of props in the bedroom, perhaps you should start the playful antics off with things that aren’t too risqué. Your best bet would be to opt for things that focus on sensuality more so than sexuality and with time, perhaps you and she can get into the bolder categories that follow.
For now, however, invest in a massage kit that will provide massage oils (edible and not), honey dusts, and best of all, a feather to keep her senses heightened. You and she can take turns pleasuring each other’s bodies and when you’re done making a mess of each other, hop on over to the bathroom for a very sensual bath.
The wet experience doesn’t have to be a boring one; by adding a host of add-ons to the mix, a typical bath can be anything but. Opt for a bathtub companion that will provide everything from a vibrating sponge to a small vibrator and enjoy the look on her face while you bring her to orgasm.
Willing to try
Now if your woman is willing to give certain sexual experiments a shot, then chances are the props you use can be somewhat more technical and the scenarios can get a little forceful.
Nookii, a sexual board game is what helped me get a past girlfriend to open up and lose it on me sexually. And man, did she ever get crazy. Who knew that having a card dictate what a woman had to do would turn her into a sexual predator? If you think your woman simply needs a nudge in the right direction, use this game to push her over the edge and onto your manhood.
When the board game begins to get old, start hindering her senses by blindfolding her and using a feather tickler to make her wetter than she’s ever been before.
And just in case she’s the type of gal who can’t take things lying down, perhaps hindering her sense of touch by handcuffing her to the bedpost might be a good idea. And when you have her at your mercy, use the Scorpion’s Ring to stimulate both her clitoris and your testicles during penetration.
Bring on the supplies
And finally, if your woman is an “anything goes” type of gal, it’s time for you to start investing in the multitudes of fun you can start having on a weekly (or even daily) basis. From the front to the back and everything in between, there are ways to drive her crazy that you never thought possible.
To start, if you’ve ever spanked your woman with your bare hand, then you don’t know what you’re missing until you’ve spanked her with a leather slapper. This will definitely add a spark to your lovemaking, and she might even want to show you how it feels at times. And chances are you’ll like it.
And if you and she have already gone the anal route, why not experiment in that area with a bunch of anal toys? From beads and plugs to vibrators, try all sorts of toys on her while you make love, and let her get behind you every once in awhile. You’ll enjoy it so long as you relax.
And if I’ve said it once, I’ve said it a million times; using tethers to keep her on the bed and unable to move will serve to turn her on, and give you the luxury of teasing and taunting her body at will. But be careful, she’ll catch on quickly and before you know it, tables will turn and she’ll start doing the same to you. Then again, that’s not so bad, is it?
have fun with it
Sometimes adding toys to otherwise great sex serves to help couples get to know one another better and share more forms of intimacy together. As well, it will help you become more open and honest with each other sexually, if you aren’t already.
If you can manage to keep your love life light and fun, and keep each other satisfied inside and outside the bedroom, your relationship will be the envy of everyone around you. Just don’t leave the vibrator on the coffee table and try to pass it off as nouveau art.
Until next time, keep thinking of good vibrations.